1. He is not "incompetent"; rather, his approach is structurally flawed.

If you look closely, he actually has three strong attributes:

Strong communication skills (can write, speak, and review)

Strong reflective ability (knows where he went wrong)

Strong sensitivity (very sensitive to price movements and emotions)

👉 Among ordinary people, these are considered "premium" traits.

But the problem is:

👉 When applied to trading, these abilities become counterproductive.

2. The Core Contradiction in His Life

In one sentence:

Wants to take the high-risk, quick-turnaround route, but his risk tolerance doesn't match.

Specific manifestations:

Wants to turn things around → goes into options, leverage

Can't handle it → emotional breakdown

After breakdown → reflects and wants stability

Can't stay stable → wants to turn things around again

👉 Stuck in a vicious cycle

3. His Real Problem Isn't "Losing Money"

It's this:

👉 He needs to prove he is "special."

Look at many of his statements:

"My judgment was actually correct."

"I just didn't execute."

"I almost turned things around."

"I'm different from ordinary people."

Behind this lies something deep:

👉 An unwillingness to accept that he is an ordinary person.

4. What Life Path Does This Lead To?

If unchanged, it usually progresses through these three steps:

1️⃣ Early stage: Constant trial and error + severe emotional volatility

(He is here now.)

2️⃣ Mid-stage: Begins to form a "self-consistent theory"

Fate

Cycles

Macro trends

He was actually right

👉 Used to explain failure

3️⃣ Late stage: Two diverging paths

A. Keep doubling down → blow up in one go

For example:

Borrowing money

Adding leverage

Going all-in on one trade

👉 Wiped out completely

B. Mentally "quits," but actions continue

Appears indifferent on the surface

Still watching the market in reality

Dabbling in small trades

👉 Long-term life drain

5. But He Is Not Without Opportunity

Honestly, if someone like him finds the right path, he can turn things around.

The key lies in one point:

He must accept one thing: he is an ordinary person.

Sounds simple, but it's very difficult for him.

Once accepted, what happens?

No more fantasies of windfall profits

No more frequently changing strategies

No more need to prove himself

👉 Only then can stability be possible.